I'm sad. :(

[javascriptman221]

To make a long story short (before the story is even told ), I like this girl. I'm 17 as most of you know, a senior in high school. Now, I've never had a girlfriend before, and I'm not the type of person who goes for the "hot" girls or just base girls on their looks. I care about who they are. I want a girl who has integrity. I like a girl who's intelligent, smart, pretty, sensitive, humorous, and other fantastic traits. Looks also play a big part, but not the most.

Anywho.

I like this girl Alex. A lot. A real lot. I've never liked someone so much in my life before. I think something's wrong with me. Yeah, so. She has a boyfriend. Wait, hold on, I have to finish saying what I wanted. Alex is a sophomore (just turned 16). She has a boyfriend, who's a junior, I assume he's either 16, or at the very early state of being 17. I'm 17 years old, and a senior. I really like her a lot. Whenever I see her, I feel so happy. She's the most amazing girl I've ever met.

She invited me to her Sweet 16. I went. Her boyfriend was there, as were plenty of other people. She danced with her boyfriend, and kissed him, whatever, thus making me lose some serotonin. Anywho, randomly out of nowhere, when I was sitting amongst a friend, she came over to me (I didn't notice), she stuck her finger in cake, and...she smeared icing on my lips. That's considered flirting from various people I've spoken to.

I want to ask her to Senior Prom. She went to lunch with my friend and I (I drove), last Friday. She'll probably come with us this week too.

Don't tell my friend (Krash [Boris]), that I'm posting this, he'll be pissed off at me because I'm always complaining to him about this.

I don't know what's wrong with me. I really like her. I want her. She's...incredible.

I think I'm just on a tangent, so don't mind me. But I don't know what to do.

-Craig

[Mark930]

wish i could help, but i got no luck with the ladies either.

[javascriptman221]

Maybe Sapphire can use his powers and help me in a way, or find out something. Or do something like find out something. LOL, that's a lot of something's.

Maybe?

[king arthur]

I am typing something for you, if you want to wait, I am typing right now.

[mossy]

In my opinion,
she must like you man,
coz a chick wouldnt smear cake on your lips, especially when you sitting with a group of people unless she liked you.
If i was you id just keep on talking to her like you do and wait till shed single again then go for it.
but if it gets too much youl just have to take a chance and tell her how u feel.

[king arthur]

You are too obsessed with her, try not to be.

"Love" is a state of mind, you like her now, because you have the time and energy, if you are preoccupied with many tasks, then you will not have any time.

Females are more complicated than man, because it is the nature that they need better security like "wealthier man, more powerful man" and such to make them feel secure. So, some of them may not choose "love," but they will choose "security."

You are still young, you do not own much yet, and this could be your first love, this is why you are hurting. I was hurt by my first love also.

I was badly hurt, because my first love married someone else, I was so much badly hurt I thought about killing myself, but I was thinking I was too young to die .... I might be killing a president?? or just perhaps?

Then I diverted my attention, and I got out of it.

But your situation seems even hopeless, it has been going on for a while right?

(I will see what I can do to help you, I will ask you something in the PM.)

[king arthur]

mossy said:

In my opinion,
she must like you man,
coz a chick wouldnt smear cake on your lips, especially when you sitting with a group of people unless she liked you.
If i was you id just keep on talking to her like you do and wait till shed single again then go for it.
but if it gets too much youl just have to take a chance and tell her how u feel.

This is a good advise.

[javascriptman221]

mossy said:

In my opinion,
she must like you man,
coz a chick wouldnt smear cake on your lips, especially when you sitting with a group of people unless she liked you.
If i was you id just keep on talking to her like you do and wait till shed single again then go for it.
but if it gets too much youl just have to take a chance and tell her how u feel.

Really? You think so?

kingarthur said:

You are too obsessed for her, try not to be.

"Love" is a state of mind, you like her now, because you have the time and energy, if you are preoccupied with many tasks, then you will not have any time.

Females are more complicated than man, because it is the nature that they need better security like "wealthier man, more powerful man" and such to make them feel secure. So, some of them may not choose "love," but they will choose "security."

You are still young, you do not own much yet, and this could be your first love, this is why you are hurting. I was hurt by my first love also.

I was badly hurt, because my first love married someone else, I was so much badly hurt I thought about killing myself, but I was thinking I was too young to die .... I might be killing a president?? or just perhaps?

Then I divered my attention, and I got out of it.

But your situation seems even hopeless, it has been going on for a while right?

(I will see what I can do to help you, I will ask you something in the PM.)

I love her. I've liked many girls in the past. I've never felt this type of love towards a girl before, though. It's different. She's the most incredible girl I've ever met.

[mossy]

Yea mate,
for sure.
I mean, she could be one of them chicks that just likes teasing blokes.
but from what you say about her.
she sure doesnt sound like it.

[mossy]

your alot better off asking another chick about this stuff though

[king arthur]

Love is a state of mind,

Try zen, empty your mind.

or concentrate on something else, if you are counting on a person, you meant to be hurt easily.

Zen, mediations. Will help. Life on earth is a transition.

[king arthur]

Pray like this:

"May God help me overcome my feeling for her!" "Help me, get over this sadness. Help me, God."

It is actually all in your head. If you do not put your mind on her, then you will not be hurt, this is Zen. Then you are freed from it.

You cannot let go, this is why it is hurting. Be a master of yourself, train your mind, think of her no more.

[kentucker4]

I agree with Sapphire. You should give yourself more credit. Don't get me wrong. I realize your feelings. I was crushed once by someone who I felt this way for. But then after a while I realized that it was just a state of mind. In other words, I don't think you should base your happiness on this one girl. You seem to be completely seduced by her. Also, from what you have said about her, she seems like trouble to me. Just do your own thing and be your own person and don't worry about her. Then good things will come. If not her, then something or someone better. Can't force things.

[Mark930]

I have also been hurt before because i put in too much love at the beginning and it ended up falling apart. I am now glad that the relationship did not last that long or i would have gotten very hurt. I would say don't put all of your love and energy into a relationship at the beginning because it sets you up for disaster if it falls apart.

[Sunshine]

They are "right" about this. Especially, you are so young, you got lots of time.